Welcome all! This is my 4th blog and i would like to share about the important problem that everyone is facing in their daily life. We are in a era where technology grows faster than humans, while running back towards technology makes us to forgot ourselves and what we are doing in daily life. One of the most important problem that everyone faces is depression and anxiety. Recent survey tells that about 800000 people die by suicide worldwide every year, of these 135,000(17%) are from India. Particularly from southern states of India the suicide rate increases upto 2.4% every year where men is to women ratio is 2:1.
Suicide is the artificial way of killing ourselves. The initial stage of suicide is depression, what are the major causes of depression? according to the survey many fall in depression and committing suicide mainly due to family problems such as, not paying the loan on time, troublesome someone for not paying the debt. Next many people are committing because of the physical illness. Some people are committing suicide due to overwork, in Japanese they will called as "karoshi". This is the most dangerous reason for death, even in the small age of 25-31 they are dying because of heart failure. Some are committing suicide because of marital affair, failure in exams, drug addiction, dowry related issues. Even some are going to next level, because of unemployment some are committing suicide. This will happen only in India where 2207 are committed suicide because of unemployment.
First of all, For what we are studying from the age 5-21, some will study upto 23 for just to commit suicide in 25-31. 80% of the suicide victims were literate which is higher than the national average literacy rate of 74%. The first phase of suicide is depression, how we can come out of the depression? Major use of electronic gadgets without sleep is the first main reason for depression. If you have nothing to do in your life you feel depressed, first set a goal in your life and work one and only for your goal, finally if you have achieved the goal you can become the one who can help people to come out of depression. Always hold up to a Tight schedule so that you can prepare yourself to do something Productively. "Don't do different things try to do things differently". Always be with a group of friends who can make you go crazy. If you feel that you don't have anything and you are not getting the things what you wish for, I want you tell a short story of a man who was born without arms and legs.
Nick Vujicic is a Australian evangelist and a motivational speaker born with a very rare disease called tetra-amelia syndrome ( absence of arms and legs ). When he was born his mother refused to see him when the nurse held front of her. He just have a only deformed foot which he calls as chicken drumstick. At the childhood he had gone through many struggles and depression which made him think of suicide but he believed that "TIME WILL GO ON". After completion of his graduation he started a Non profitable organisation called "Life without limbs". Then he acted in films like butterfly circus and got a award for best actor. Currently he is one of the top motivating speakers in the world. Can you imagine a man without arms and legs can survive and do what all the normal persons do but he does better than that. He thought that this life has been given by the god and he is the one who can take it from me even I don't have the authority to take that. "What life gives to you just get it and go down time will have a answer for you". I wanted to share a another short story about a famous Pakistani women.
Muniba Mazari Pakistani iron lady, she is called as iron lady because she has got the most iron inside her body. She is a normal women who got married at the age of 18 due to his father's compulsion. She meet with a big car accident at age 21 where she lost her leg, she can't give a birth to the baby, She can't control some of her body parts. At the time she felt depressed but she didn't commit suicide she took a paper and write down her fears, First is her husband asked divorce and gets ready for the second marriage. She wishes him goodluck, next she wanted to walk after 30 months bed returned and she did that. Then she wanted to achieve something in her life, she knows to draw well and now she has became one of the top artist in Pakistan. She joined national television of Pakistan and doing her job as a TV anchor. She is one of the top 100 women who achieved more according to the BBC survey and she is top 1 Pakistan. She also won the award of 30 under 30, women who had achieved more below 30 years.
Friends there are many persons in this world "who has nothing and wanted to achieve more thing but you all are having all things and not doing anything". Everybody has their own problems, it's ok to get depressed but try to get out from that zone or just leave it and continue what you are doing "Time will go on". No one has a authority to finish their own life "Only fools will commit suicide". Getting a birth or decaying by dying is very easy but the tough job is to survive in this earth. I have challenged myself to survive in this earth will you?!
I want to share two vedios of the famous personalities I mentioned above, It was a good motivation for me and I think it will be a powerful motivation for you too
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Suicide is the artificial way of killing ourselves. The initial stage of suicide is depression, what are the major causes of depression? according to the survey many fall in depression and committing suicide mainly due to family problems such as, not paying the loan on time, troublesome someone for not paying the debt. Next many people are committing because of the physical illness. Some people are committing suicide due to overwork, in Japanese they will called as "karoshi". This is the most dangerous reason for death, even in the small age of 25-31 they are dying because of heart failure. Some are committing suicide because of marital affair, failure in exams, drug addiction, dowry related issues. Even some are going to next level, because of unemployment some are committing suicide. This will happen only in India where 2207 are committed suicide because of unemployment.
First of all, For what we are studying from the age 5-21, some will study upto 23 for just to commit suicide in 25-31. 80% of the suicide victims were literate which is higher than the national average literacy rate of 74%. The first phase of suicide is depression, how we can come out of the depression? Major use of electronic gadgets without sleep is the first main reason for depression. If you have nothing to do in your life you feel depressed, first set a goal in your life and work one and only for your goal, finally if you have achieved the goal you can become the one who can help people to come out of depression. Always hold up to a Tight schedule so that you can prepare yourself to do something Productively. "Don't do different things try to do things differently". Always be with a group of friends who can make you go crazy. If you feel that you don't have anything and you are not getting the things what you wish for, I want you tell a short story of a man who was born without arms and legs.
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Muniba Mazari Pakistani iron lady, she is called as iron lady because she has got the most iron inside her body. She is a normal women who got married at the age of 18 due to his father's compulsion. She meet with a big car accident at age 21 where she lost her leg, she can't give a birth to the baby, She can't control some of her body parts. At the time she felt depressed but she didn't commit suicide she took a paper and write down her fears, First is her husband asked divorce and gets ready for the second marriage. She wishes him goodluck, next she wanted to walk after 30 months bed returned and she did that. Then she wanted to achieve something in her life, she knows to draw well and now she has became one of the top artist in Pakistan. She joined national television of Pakistan and doing her job as a TV anchor. She is one of the top 100 women who achieved more according to the BBC survey and she is top 1 Pakistan. She also won the award of 30 under 30, women who had achieved more below 30 years.Friends there are many persons in this world "who has nothing and wanted to achieve more thing but you all are having all things and not doing anything". Everybody has their own problems, it's ok to get depressed but try to get out from that zone or just leave it and continue what you are doing "Time will go on". No one has a authority to finish their own life "Only fools will commit suicide". Getting a birth or decaying by dying is very easy but the tough job is to survive in this earth. I have challenged myself to survive in this earth will you?!
I want to share two vedios of the famous personalities I mentioned above, It was a good motivation for me and I think it will be a powerful motivation for you too
Good job da lakshmanan, good blog
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